On date nights, I usually throw on a sweater and lipstick. But the other day, my friend Gemma texted me this photo of her look, as she headed out to dinner with her husband. How gorgeous is she? And how fun does it sound, after these intense couple years, to smudge on eyeliner and spritz on perfume and feel sexy?

Here are a few inspo looks…

Thoughts? Which would you wear? (I still love this one, and how pretty is this back?)

P.S. How to keep the sparks flying, and spending 20 years in NYC.